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You can respond with a polite no, a no with an alternative suggestion, or a no with an explanation. Isolates self from groups Aggressive Behavior: Being assertive is a much healthier alternative. Rather than say what they mean and mean what they say, they say what they think others want them to say. But the more assertive you become, the more confident you will feel. Values self less than others Aggressive Behavior: Be creative; suggest a third option or a blending of both of your ideas. I'm okay, you're okay. What does being assertive mean? Intimidates others with expressions Assertive Behavior: They get done because people, often in groups, work toward a common goal. Resentment and rancor keep ruining relationship after relationship. Glares and stares at others Assertive Behavior: Hurts self to avoid hurting others Aggressive Behavior: Put a smile on your face. Slouches and withdraws Aggressive Behavior: Participates in groups Passive Behavior: Saying no can help you create limits, establish priorities, build character and make your yes more meaningful. Hurts others to avoid being hurt Assertive Behavior: Relaxes and adopts an open posture and expressions Passive Behavior: Hide your angry feelings. Agrees with others, despite feelings Aggressive Behavior: Few passive-aggressive people know much about conflict resolution skills. Your choice does not have to always be his way or your way. Stands rigidly, crosses arms, invades others' personal space Assertive Behavior: Does not reach goals and may not know goals Aggressive Behavior:
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